Let’s be Clear.  I Teach Confidence

When it comes to sex, your girl does not want a really gentle, kind, sweet, reserved man. While she does want to be respected, loved, admired, and supported, she wants a man who is able to take control and give her a night she will never forget.

I will teach you how to have the confidence to find the girl, and be the best Dom you could possibly be.

“Seriously, you have done more for my confidence in two sessions than then counselor I see once a week has in over two months.” – 38 m USA

New to BDSM?

Everyone who is in the world of BDSM was once completely new to it. While there are many ways to learn and grow you understanding and skills, many people will benefit most by learning from someone else. If you are one of them, then a few sessions of coaching could be all you need to feel confident as a Dom, a lover, and a man.

Let’s make one thing very clear: there is no correct way to be kinky. There is only what you like and how you like it. It doesn’t matter how vanilla you think you are, once you embrace the true you, and the freak you are inside, you will be happier and have the best sex you have ever experienced.

Looking for BDSM couple’s coaching?

If you want to take things seriously, then let me show you how to make 50 Shades of Grey look like a coloring book.

  • Would you like to be called Sir, or Master?
  • Would you like to explore all of her kinkiest desires?
  • Would you like to explore your own fantasies?
  • Would you like the power to choose when, where, and how you fuck?

Then sign up today. If you like sex even half as much as I do, this might very well be the best decision you will ever make.


What a Coaching Session Looks Like

The format is a one-on-one talk, an hour in length. I like to do it over Skype (or appear.in), but phone can be used instead. My goal is to figure out where and who you are now, and where you want to get to. I can not make you into a different person, nor would I want to. Instead I will be coaching you on how to consistently be the best version of yourself.
My goal is to give you the tools you need to understand the goals and consequences of each action. For example, I’m not going to spend my time showing you how to do a single column tie when I can just send you a link to a youtube video for that. Instead I’m going to teach you to understand the details of when and why you would choose to use this.
It’s the whole “teach a man to fish” approach. I train men to become the best version of themselves. Anyone can learn how to throw a whip, but the true weapon is learning how to ensnare, control, and manipulate emotions.


Already in the scene?

If you are already in the scene, but would like to take your sub and your skills to the next level, then let’s talk. Instead of simply talking about what you can do, I like to focus more on the choices we make as a Dom, why we make them, and how we can work towards always making the best choices possible. Sessions include (but are not limited to):

  • Building true, solid, lasting confidence.
  • Growing and intensifying your connection with your sub.
  • Building trust in your relationship.
  • Taking things to the next level.
  • Pushing limits.
  • Thinking outside the box.
  • Understanding your potential, and how to use your weaknesses as your strengths.

The greatest professionals in any discipline have all benefited greatly from the coaching they receive. If you want to try and find your true potential, fill out the form below. I look forward to talking with you.

What Current Students are Saying About Me

Seriously, you have done more for my confidence in two sessions than then counselor I see once a week has in over two months.

- New Dom, 2 Sessions in

This is exactly what I needed. My girlfriend actually said last night “wow, where did that come from?”. I can’t wait until next week. Thank you!

- New, 1-Session

Thanks for the insight yesterday. You are well spoken and seldom speak without conviction. I have purchased 4 additional sessions with you. I don’t know how old you are but you are way beyond your years and contain lots of wisdom and words of advice. I hope one day I reach that level of enlightenment and carry on the knowledge to somebody else.

- Dom, New, 1-Session